Not only do shorter women feel protected by their more traditionally 'masculine' other half but being tall is also a biological indication that your partner is strong enough to protect a family. Unsurprisingly, this works wonders for the guy's confidence and results in a happy, secure relationship.
So the greater the height difference, the happier the couple who are unconsciously following these prehistoric rules. Unfair or not, their statuesque height makes them seem more trustworthy and capable of greater responsibility.
In other words, their mere genetics puts them first in line for that promotion which, in turn, contributes to their partner's happiness. They don't need protection at all, however, relationship experts will tell you that a successful relationship is more about perception rather than reality.
Everyone loves a good cuddle and the height difference between a tall man and an average woman makes hugs all that more intimate. The all-encompassing nature of long arms wrapping up a woman is something special.
A woman feels safe and the man feels like he is powerful and dominant. It doesn't stop at a hug either. Tall men love the notion that they could if they wanted to, lift a little lady up and canoodle with her. This too seems to be an aspect of protectionism, appealing to a man's deepest level of primal instinct. It is true that attractive women are tall women as well as short, and I don't mean to show height discrimination, however, sometimes you just can't fight nature.
The key to a secure relationship is both parties feeling secure, cared for, and needed. After all, being needed is something everyone wants in life. Is this why this combination works so well? When a tall guy chooses an average height or a smaller woman, he is guaranteed to be needed on an ongoing basis.
Short girls see tall guys as protectors and feel super safe when they're with them. They look like warriors and girls assume that in case of bad weather or danger, the guy will simply wrap his arms around her and ensure her safety.
A Chinese Wiseman would tell you a protective man is the one who knows how to fight Kung-Fu but no, girls think otherwise. However, it can be a bonus point for a tall guy as height itself makes him attractive. With that thinking, you shouldn't be surprised to see women go for the taller guys. Hey r. This sounds hilarious, but it actually happens. You might find a lady standing on her toes trying to reach something on top of a cupboard. After a long struggle, she might decide to fetch a chair or a ladder to resolve her dilemma.
Some ladies would rather date a tall guy than buy a ladder. In fact, some ladies will date a tall guy and purposely throw the TV remote on the highest shelf and then send him to get it.
They think it's romantic and this is one of the reasons why tall men are attractive to them. Tall guys can reach higher places, and they help the short girls reach top places too by lifting them up. Short girls get turned on by this act and even imagine tall celebrities lifting them up. Many girls want to feel who they are: girls.
When a girl knows she is shorter than her boyfriend, she feels that their height difference highlights both of their sexes. Therefore, a girl would prefer to date a tall guy who makes her feel feminine and a bit petite, thus making her more confident. A good guy always compliments his girl, including tall guys.
Nevertheless, women want to feel girly, and they get this satisfaction when they date tall guys. A post shared by shaynesations on Sep 27, at pm PDT.
Looking at evolutionary psychology, there is a theory called assortative mating that indicates humans tend to select mates that are similar to themselves, including height. However, the credibility of this theory regarding height differential is being put to the test. Recent findings indicate that modern women prefer a man to be 8" taller than themselves.
Do you think that's a reflection on the size heals they intend to wear? The study also indicated that the preference for tall people does not transcend the sexes. It seems that when it came to choosing an ideal partner, men were not so picky about height differential.
In contrast, In our extremely communicative world, it's very easy to get tied up with stereotypes. We are constantly being fed information about how we should look, feel and act. Society uses mediums such as movies, magazines, news, music, marketing, and influential people to reinforce certain messages.
I can't help but wonder if this constant bombardment is the main reason shorter women and tall women sway away from evolutionary trends in their choice of partner. Throughout the screen age, women have been looking up into their bows eyes, men have been bending down to kiss, and let's not forget the tall and handsome hero who always sweeps in to save the damsel in distress. It sounds like every Disney movie, and that is what every little girl grows up looking for in a man.
Fun fact: Height is the second most-lied about feature on dating apps, only being outdone by 'job'. Less talked about, and not very politically correct, is the idea that women look to tall men for physical protection and security. Whether this gender stereotype is perception or reality, there is a level of subconscious security women find alluring that only a tall man can offer.
So why is it so important for today's heterosexual adult women to find tall partners?
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